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this is the one phrase we use all the time in our family
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the original meaning of the word discipline comes from the latin disciplina
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as parents then we are teachers — teachers who are still learning ourselves
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when we discipline our children we want to empower them to change their behavior
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generally being defiant
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they will naturally begin to outgrow these behaviors as they gain more self-regulation
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research shows that kids who master social skills are set up
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we have to teach them that they can change their behavior
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but how do we get from a feeling of failure to a feeling of empowerment
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how to empower children to change behavior
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when your child does something you want them to do differently
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correct the behavior
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identify the problem
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engage them in perspective taking
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read more ->3-step guide
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then it is the time to empower them to change and diffuse their negative feelings
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the one thing to always say when disciplining your toddler
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you'll remember next time
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it tells them that their failure today isn't a permanent failure and that they can change
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it gives them something positive to focus on
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it also helps them resolve their current feelings and gives them a sense of relief and a desire to try next time
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if they do remember next time they might even point it out to you “i remembered mama! i used my words
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you'll respond
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when they do that you know it happened — they were empowered to change their behavior from within
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that pride is a reflection of the empowerment. and it wasn't you controlling their behavior
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i've found this works best
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my son is 4-years-old and uses this phrase on his own now — “next time i'll remember.” but i have to reinforce that
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