Punch Bowl Strawberry Lush Angel Cake

cream cheese , softened to room temperature

granulated sugar

Juice of 2 lemons

of sweetened condensed milk

of non-dairy whipped topping (like Cool Whip)

of frozen sliced strawberries , thawed (sweetened or unsweetened)

angel food cake or pound cake

fresh strawberries , sliced (reserve some for garnish)

shredded coconut , lightly toasted if desired, optional

finely chopped pecans , optional